The way one looks and acts is crucial throughout the entire divorce process. Not all divorces go so far as a court appearance. Amicable divorces are typically done behind closed doors, with the assistance of attorneys. This is common for those who mutually decide that divorce is right for them and are able to settle the different facets of divorce without a judge’s third-party assistance. Conduct is especially important in cases involving children. If a judge notices that one parent is acting in a way that is unfit for a parent, custody decisions will be affected. Whether or not you are in front of a court or in a private space, your conduct is crucial for getting a “fair trial”.
How Should I Behave During the Divorce Process?
Timeliness is everything: Arriving on time to every legal appointment is key. This is the only concrete evidence that a judge can see that shows reliability and responsibility. This also tells the court that you see this as a priority. Each spouse is compared throughout the legal process so it is important to be on time.
Dress professionally: Spouses should dress in business attire. Not only will you be at the same dress level as your legal team, but this also shows your professional side. It does not matter whether or not you work in a “business attire” setting, but showing that you can dress up when necessary is a clear sign of recognizing priorities.
Keep your emotions in check: Getting divorced is emotionally taxing on both spouses as well as their family and friends. Often times those emotions can come flooding out in the courtroom as your relationship is opened up for others to see. That being said, keeping your emotions under control is very important. Some people will display anger or sadness in the midst of an ending relationship, but both can come off as unprofessional and hysterical, especially in the court.
Be organized and prepared: Legal assistance is necessary for every divorce regardless of the level of friendliness that exists between you both. Sometimes the amiability that exists can be a tactic used to catch your spouse unprepared thus keeping them from receiving proper amounts of alimony or child support. Having a lawyer who is experienced in divorce cases is the best way to protect you from receiving less than you should....